Jul 28, 2014

Monday's Blues

Happy Monday Everyone
I was channel surfing yesterday and I came across a program on the Opera Winfrey Network. They were discussing how society is so fast paced. We don't take the time to live in the moment and when we do we will begin to see the world in 3D.  I completely agreed with this statement and decided that I was going to start living and enjoying every moment whether good or bad.  I am no longer going to drag through the day but instead appreciate the beauty that is the world we live. How are you going to grow today?

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“You must live in the present, launch yourself on every wave, find your eternity in each moment. Fools stand on their island of opportunities and look toward another land. There is no other land; there is no other life but this.”
 ― Henry David Thoreau

Jul 23, 2014

Challenge and Change

Whats going on with you all on this fine day
Photos by Frog
So while I was in New Jersey visiting family... I found this beautiful cocktail dress in Windsor, the back is open and is simply sexy.  I have been waiting for a time to wear it but that time has yet to come because it is very revealing.  I decided to wear it as a skirt and it turned out really cute. I have learn to not be afraid to alter articles of clothing.  If it does not work change it. Do not be so quick to throw things out.  I officially challenge you to take a look into your closets with a renewed imagination and creative mind.  I am sure there are things that a little alteration can make brand new again. Try it out and let me know what you did not have to buy again.

Top: Forever 21 (Similar here) - Jacket: Forever 21 (Similar here) - Dress worn as a Skirt: Windsor (Similar here)  - Shoes: B by Brian Atwood - Clutch: Estee Lauder Gift Bag  

"Neither situations nor people can be altered by the interference of an outsider. If they are to be altered, that alteration must come from within."
― Phyllis Bottome

Jul 22, 2014

Simply Things

Hey Guys 
Hope you are having a great day 
So I was thinking about our move the other day and thought wow, how time flies. I can not believe that four months have already passed of us living in overseas. I can say we are adjusting very well.  We are almost finished with the house, joined a church and have began great friendships. Right now we are working on speaking the language.  It is a lot harder for me then it is for Frog but I refuse to be left behind. I really love living in Germany.  The people, the food and culture is amazing. I can't wait to continue to enjoy this journey with my boo thang. 

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"With every deed you are sowing a seed, though the harvest you may not see."
― Ella Wheeler Wilcox 

Jul 21, 2014

Bundle of Joy

Hey Friends,
I know, I know.... I have been really "slacking on my pimping" when it comes to blogging but I am back in full affect. 

Its been a busy few weeks. I have to telling you guys about the most beautiful thing I have ever experienced. Good friends of Frog and I, had a precious baby girl about a week ago and I was able to be a part of it. Frog and I missed the actual birth by an hour (which was okay because I am really not "about that life") but I was able to hold her right after. She was perfect; just tiny and sweet. She opened her eyes and smiled as to say "I am here to conqueror the world". I could not compose myself... I was so filled with joy because I knew she would be in great hands and loved by so many. Honestly, I am in my twenty's and I have never held a child less than 6 months old. So it was even more cool for that very reason. 

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“Love can change a person the way a parent can change a baby- awkwardly, and often with a great deal of mess.” 

― Lemony Snicket

Jul 3, 2014

Lets Talk About It 101

Hey Loves,
So Frog has decided to respond to your question. 
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Why is it when you do everything for a guy (cook, clean, wash clothes, etc) and it still seems like it's not enough like he's still out there looking for more. What shall I do ?

Hello, 
Let me say that I do not know your story and I am answering your question based on the way I am reading it. Simply put: this is only my opinion. So when you say that you do everything for a "guy", my first thought is that you two are not in a relationship since you didn't clarify. Well if you two have not clearly set boundaries for what you have, then he probably feels that he has no obligation to stop looking. Men know what they want regardless of what anyone will tell you. We may not always know the right words to describe what we want, but as far as knowing what we want....we know. My advice to you would be to sit this guy down and make sure that the two of you are on the same page. It sounds like you are ready for a relationship with this individual, and if this is the case, let him know. Some people feel no need to commit if they do not have to. Its like the old saying goes: "Why buy the cow, when you can get the milk for free?" I hope this helps your situation.

Please feel free to ask any questions you have... What else would you like to ask?

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“A person is, among all else, a material thing, easily torn and not easily mended.” 
― Ian McEwan

Jul 2, 2014

Sky Is The Limit

Hey Guys,
How are you doing today? 
Have you ever looked back on life and thought of how blessed you are? I am sitting here feeling overwhelmed with appreciation. I have done some stupid and reckless things in the past but I live today with knowledge from past mistakes. I have endured many challenges and through it all I remain. Just thinking about how I should not be here today but somehow, someway God has brought me through it all. I just feel like today is just a day to be grateful for a the positive things and not be so concern about the negative. Remembering that regardless of what I am going through, it too shall pass. 

-Epiphany
Thank you for allowing me to experience pain 
that's the only way I learned my strength
Thank you for allowing me to be hurt 
that's the only way I learned to love
 Thank you for allowing me to be misjudged  
that's the only way I learned to prove myself 
Thank you for allowing me to be disrespected
 that's the only way I learned to respect myself like a lad. 
Thank you for allowing me to live 
that's the only way I learned to love
ME.
By: Mscinternational

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“Be thankful for what you have; you'll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don't have, you will never, ever have enough” 
― Oprah Winfrey

Jun 30, 2014

Training Day

Hello World,
How are you? Hope you aren't having those Monday blues. 
All Photos By Frog
Deciding to get into shape or live a healthier lifestyle can be a big decision but well worth it. However, many people fail at trying live healthier lifestyle.  This is due to different reasons. Here are several tips to maintaining your workout routine and to living a healthier lifestyle:
       * Set Goals! Ensure your goals are obtainable and realistic.
*Eat clean, and drink plenty of water
     * Have a workout plan.  Don’t go to the gym without a plan, you just set yourself up for failure.
 *Find exercises, sports, or workout classes you like. These things will motivate you to want to work out and live a healthier lifestyle like 
Zumba classes, Aerobic classes, Swimming, Crossfit, Cycling, etc.

Just remember starting a workout routine, eating clean and living a healthier lifestyle won’t give you results overnight. Give your body time to change. Starting a new routine can take up to six weeks for person body to adjust and show results.

Exercise of the Day: SQUAT

The squat is a great all around leg workout. The exercise target every part of the leg muscle; quadriceps, hamstrings, calves, and buttocks.  See link below on how to perform a proper squat.


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To improve is to change; to be perfect is to change often.
― Winston Churchhill